Strength in the Storm
By Riders Against Domestic Violence Life doesn’t always ride smooth roads. Sometimes it feels like you’re caught in a storm that won’t break…fighting battles nobody else can see…holding on when everything inside you wants to let go. If you’re in that place right now—this is for you. God Sees What Others Don’t There are moments […]
RADV Presents: The Ripple Effect
Changing Tomorrow by Investing in Today Series #4: The Example They Remember Children may forget the toys you bought them. They may outgrow the clothes you gave them. They may not remember every birthday or every vacation. But they’ll always remember how you made them feel. They’ll remember whether your home was a place of […]
Flowers Don’t Bloom Because You Want Them To
We all wish healing could happen overnight. We wish the pain would disappear, the memories would fade, and tomorrow would somehow be easier than today. But healing doesn’t work that way. A flower doesn’t bloom simply because someone wants it to. It blooms because day after day it receives water, sunlight, care, and time. The […]
Men: Just Do the Right Thing
There are a lot of conversations today about what it means to be a man. Some people measure it by strength. Others by success, money, or status. At RADV, we believe it’s much simpler than that. Just do the right thing. Real strength isn’t found in raising your voice. It’s found in controlling it. Real […]
RADV: Coercive Control – The Abuse You Can’t Always See
Not every abusive relationship begins with a punch. Sometimes it begins with a question:“Who were you texting?” Then another:“Why do you need to go there?” Before long, the questions become rules. You stop seeing certain friends because it’s “easier.” You stop wearing clothes you like because they cause arguments. You begin asking permission without realizing […]
RADV: Count Your Blessings
There are seasons in life when counting your problems is easy. Pain demands your attention. Loss keeps you awake at night. The hurt from abuse, betrayal, or trauma can make it feel like there is nothing left to be thankful for. But healing often begins with a simple shift in perspective. Counting your blessings doesn’t […]
RADV: A Bad Day Doesn’t Mean a Bad Life
We all have them. The days where nothing seems to go right. The days when old memories come rushing back. The days when the weight of life feels heavier than it did yesterday. Having a bad day doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re human. For survivors of abuse, a difficult day can feel especially […]
Finding Your Joy Again
There comes a moment in healing when you realize you’re no longer just trying to survive—you want to live again. For many survivors of domestic violence, abuse, or trauma, joy can feel like something that belongs to someone else. You may remember what happiness used to feel like, but after years of walking on eggshells, […]
RADV: Control Is Not Love
Sometimes abuse doesn’t begin with a slap, a shove, or a threat. Sometimes it begins with one small decision that wasn’t yours to make. “What are you wearing?” “Who are you texting?” “I don’t like your friends.” “You don’t need your own bank account.” “Just let me handle everything.” At first, it can feel like […]
RADV: When Pride Says Stay Silent
There is a voice that many men hear after abuse. It whispers: “Don’t tell anyone.” “No one will believe you.” “Real men can handle it.” “You’ll look weak.” “Just deal with it.” For many male survivors, that voice is louder than the abuse itself. From the time many boys are young, they are taught to […]